This is actually intended to hopefully turn on a little light bulb above the heads of a few naïve LJ'ers ...and I'm especially concerned about those under 14, but not exclusively... who air a little too much dirty laundry, or are blithely posting under the mistaken impression that certain people will never read it. You guys have got enough issues to contend with in life. LJ, as with all online folderol, is not a right - it's a privilege. Even for me.
Yes, I am aware of the chance my own husband may someday be told about certain posts. The eppylover is living on the edge. ;P
After all, everything blogged on the 'net is public fodder. It is. Some people are actually stupid enough to believe the idiotic "this is my journal and you have no right to snoop into it" theory (yeah, sure, we're all on the honor system here, dumbasses) ... and there are even the few, the proud and the ignorant who post intimate details for their eyes only... which exhibits a lack of forethought to begin with... but on top of that, they don't even make their journals (so-called) "private." Reminiscent of the 60's adolescents with the little flimsily-locked diaries kept hidden under mattresses. A big difference: we were living with the danger of our parents (or worse, our little sibling, hee) discovering and reading it - and *facepalm* you guys are exposing yourselves to the entire world.
What if a journal site was going out of business anyway, and wanted to make a final crazy splash? You couldn't sue them. Did you sign a contract with them? No, you just checked a box that said "Private." Means nothing. Honor system again. I doubt if the online privacy "promises" made by providers could be debated in a court of law. We already know that the law and/or government has no problem whatsoever sifting through every little bit of anyone's "private" or friends-locked journals.
Bottom line is - if you wouldn't print it on the front page of the New York Times, don't type it into your journal. You're a bit of a fool or a subconscious danger-seeker if you don't believe that.
Ah, but some people do like to live dangerously.
(At this, Eppylover fights the tendency for her imagination to drift over to Brian's escapades.)
Did You KnowThat, if you're under age 14, your parents have the ability to review your entire journal, even if they don't know your username and/or password?
And I wouldn't doubt that if you are of legal age but still living with your parents and using their computer, it wouldn't be too much of a struggle for the parents to gain access.
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Did you know if you delete your LJ, it's usually not completely deleted:
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I would assume that all online blogs and journals have a similar government-mandated policy. Depending on circumstances and the pressure applied to the provider - and the circumstances wouldn't have to be too crucial - I imagine any journal/blog provider would open access to a parent even if their child wasn't a minor - if the child was still living with them.
Mama Eppylover is only asking that you consider any future complications from your present actions. ♥
You now have my permission to cast your eyes upward and mutter, "asdfghjkljklsjaklsalf*k!"